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Say Yes to Spontaneity This Holiday Season 🎄

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Hi friends! 🎄✨ Welcome to December! This time of year is so magical, but let’s be real—it’s also busy, chaotic, and full of the same old routines. That’s why in this week’s Chasing Brighter podcast episode, we’re shaking things up! We’re talking all about embracing spontaneity during the holidays and how it can bring unexpected joy, stronger connections, and unforgettable memories.

Let’s get into how we can sprinkle a little more adventure into the season, even when our calendars are packed!

Why Embrace Spontaneity During the Holidays?

Let’s face it, the holidays can feel like a never-ending to-do list: shopping, cooking, hosting, attending events, repeat. While traditions are comforting, they can also feel monotonous or even stressful.

Spontaneity is like a breath of fresh air! It lets you step outside your usual routines and rediscover the magic of the season. Research even shows that trying something new or exploring unfamiliar places can boost happiness and strengthen relationships. Plus, those off-the-cuff moments often become the stories we laugh about for years to come.

Simple Ways to Add Spontaneity to Your Holidays

You don’t need to throw out all your holiday plans to embrace spontaneity. A few small, unplanned moments can make a big impact. Here are some ideas to get you started:

1. Try a New Tradition

Shake up your holiday routine! Try:

  • Cooking a dish from another culture (like tamales or the Feast of the Seven Fishes).
  • Swapping traditional gift exchanges for shared experiences.
  • Creating a scavenger hunt for your family during holiday light tours.

🎧 For more on creative traditions, check out Season 2, Episode 58: Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes.

2. Explore Local Seasonal Events

Many towns have holiday markets, pop-up ice skating rinks, or light displays. In Chicago, the Christkindlmarket and downtown lights are a must-see!

Don’t plan every detail—pick a destination and see where the day takes you. Maybe you end up trying a new restaurant, discovering a cozy bookstore, or just enjoying the festive atmosphere.

3. Plan a Surprise Adventure

  • Take a last-minute road trip to see snow or holiday lights.
  • Pick a random spot for dinner and make a night of it.
  • Bake cookies together and drop them off at your neighbors’ homes.

It’s all about saying “yes” to the little adventures that pop up.

4. Say Yes to Invitations

When you get a last-minute invite to a holiday concert or dinner, resist the urge to overthink. Just say yes! Or take the leap and invite someone over unexpectedly—it might just turn into the highlight of the season.

Balancing Spontaneity and Holiday Commitments

Feeling overwhelmed? Don’t worry—you can make space for spontaneity without tossing out your holiday plans.

1. Block Off Free Time

Set aside an evening or afternoon with no commitments. Decide in the moment what you’ll do—whether it’s playing a board game, watching a holiday movie, or taking a family walk.

2. Get the Family Involved

Ask everyone for ideas and let them take turns picking an activity. It’s a great way to get buy-in from even the pickiest family members!

3. Focus on Connection

Remember, the goal isn’t to be busy—it’s to connect. Whether it’s a snowball fight, baking cookies, or just a heartfelt conversation, it’s about creating meaningful moments together.

Spontaneous Fun at Home

You don’t need to go far to add a little magic to your day. Here are some ideas:

  • Game Night: Pull out a family favorite like Taboo or holiday trivia.
  • DIY Projects: Collect pinecones, bake them to open them up (and get rid of bugs!), and paint them together.
  • Old-School Video Games: Revive Wii Sports or Nintendo Switch games for some friendly competition.

Inspiration for Saying Yes

If you’re ready to embrace spontaneity but need a little inspiration, check out these past podcast episodes:

  • Season 2, Episode 58: Year of Yes
    This book by Shonda Rhimes is a masterclass in opening yourself up to new opportunities.
  • May Book Club Episode: Creativity and Gratitude
    Explore how creativity and gratitude can spark joy and connection, even during the busiest times.

The Magic of Saying Yes

The holidays are about joy, connection, and wonder. By saying yes to new adventures, you’re inviting all three into your life. Whether it’s a spur-of-the-moment family outing or a quiet evening of laughter and games, the most meaningful moments often come when we let go of the plan and embrace the unexpected.